Things I Like: Pine cones

Pine cones

One of my favorite parts of Fall, aside from all the lovely colors, is the abundance of pine cones.  And most importantly I like to step on pine cones. The crunchy noise underfoot is like none other.

It brings me back to my childhood when we used to step on as many pine cones as we could find. To this day, I go out of my way to step on one. I also can admit that I am mildly disappointed when a pine cone is not crunchy..

♥ Michelle

Dishwasher Packing Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Do you, or someone you love, suffer from Dishwasher Packing Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (DPOCD)? If so, then this is the post for you.

Hello! My name is Michelle and I have DPOCD, which is a very serious condition.  There is a right way to load a dishwasher and a wrong way. I apparently am the only one who knows the right way. And I will reload it if necessary, and then mentally attack you (you, who cannot properly load the dishwasher, you) with ninja swords. You've been warned. 

I'm not quite sure when I discovered I had DPOCD, but once I was diagnosed my entire life made much more sense.  There is a reason to the way I pack a dishwasher.  I don't just pack dishes for the fun of it. I don't particularly love doing dishes. But I do know there is a right way and a wrong way to load the dishwasher. Since I have been blessed and know the correct way I figure I can put this out there to help others in need.

There are some simple truths about dishwasher packing that you should know and accept before moving forward:

5 Truths about Dishwasher Packing:

1. There is a right way to load a dishwasher.
2. A correctly loaded dishwasher washes the dishes better.
3. Loading the dishwasher is an art form.
4. Every dishwasher is unique and deserves it's own packing technique.
5.  Anyone can learn how to correctly load a dishwasher.


With all that in mind, what can you do? Don't worry. I've got some suggestions to help you out.


What you can do if someone you love is suffering from DPOCD:

1. Put the dishes IN the dishwasher. OK, so yes, I know you can't properly load the dishwasher (because I've seen what you do), and you possibly know that I can (obviously). But that doesn't mean you just leave all the dishes in the sink, or worse the counter next to the freaking sink.  I'd much rather rearrange dishes then have to grumble my way through putting an entire sink of dirty dishes in the sink because you are too lazy. And don't use the excuse that you were going to do it later.  I guarantee you I did give you enough time to put them away.

2. Pay attention to the dishwasher.  If your loved one is always putting a specific plate in the same spot, then it is really simple: when you load the dishwasher, put it in that same spot.  I guarantee that after two dishwasher loads you'll see the pattern and how to load it. Plus you'll prevent your loved one from having an anxiety attack.

3. Learn where the dishes "live". So, you still can't load the dishwasher properly even after you have tried many times? Don't worry. You can still help. The least you can do is to put away the clean dishes. That does require knowing where the dishes go.  Finding a million tupperware on the counter because you couldn't figure out where they go is not helpful at all. Every dish has a place. Take five minutes and study your cabinets. (oh and by the way, for the tupperware, it is very simple to stack tupperware. Please don't act like you don't know how to put the larger ones on the bottom and stack with the smaller ones inside. That is considered basic stacking skills, something you learn as a toddler.)

4. Follow the basic rule that like dishes go together. Don't put a large plate, then a small plate then a bowl all in a row in your dishwasher.  Put all your large plates together in a row; then all your small plates together in a row; then all your bowls together in a row.  That way the dishes stack are much more snug and you can fit more in your dishwasher. Go ahead and try it. Your mind will be blown. (and now you understand your loved one better now).

5. If it is late at night and the dishwasher has not been started yet you need to spring into action! Quickly load/finish loading the dishwasher and start the cycle.  This will give your loved one a break.  But please keep in mind the above suggestions and don't just throw all the dishes in the dishwasher. Loading the dishwasher is an art form, remember that.


What you can do if you suffer from DPOCD:

1. Take one dishwasher load at a time. If you start to get overwhelmed with dishwasher packing, remember it is only one load at a time. So do this one load and then take a breather. Then go reward yourself and eat some chocolate. you deserve it.

2. Understand that you can properly train others how to load a dishwasher. Also keep in mind that they will completely forget their training within less than a week. Baby steps. Baby steps...

3. Pick 1 (yes ONE) thing that drives you crazy about the other dishwasher packers in your household to work on at a time. For example: So and so keeps putting a particular utensil on the top rack.  Not only does it clearly belong with the utensils it also hasn't been coming out of the dishwasher fully cleaned. So then you have to rinse it again after it has already been washed in the dishwasher.  So try saying something like this, while loading the dishwasher of course, "Oh hey {insert name} I realized that this {particular utensil} doesn't wash well in the top rack and would wash better with the utensils. Just so you know next time!" Warning: This step may need to be repeated multiple times.

4. If the above suggestion does not work please allow Mr or Miss so and so, who obviously enjoys dirty dishes, to empty the dishwasher themselves -- OR leave spatula as is and let them discover that it is not coming out clean by themselves.  This can be particularly difficult because not all people notice cleanliness of dishes, so this may prove unsuccessful.

5. Give yourself a curfew.  If it is late at night and you should be going to sleep and you see a few more dishes that need to go in the dishwasher DON'T DO IT. Don't do it because more than likely you'll have to rearrange the dishwasher because someone else in the family did not load it properly. So don't even open the dishwasher. Leave it AS IS. Have someone else start the dishwasher and walk away. That way you prevent yourself from spending at least 20 minutes rearranging. And you more than likely rearranged it earlier in the day so the damage is hopefully minimal.

If you or a loved one is suffering from DPOCD, do not feel alone.  There are others who understand and feel your pain.  If you are looking for a place to vent, here is a safe place. 

And, Remember my friends; loading the dishwasher is an art form. It should be treated likewise.

♥ Michelle

*disclaimer: I am not a doctor, nor do I proclaim to be one. 
If you should need medical attention for your DPOCD please seek out your doctor for help.

Things I Like: Fall

Fall.

To me, Fall is one of the most gorgeous seasons.  

Although I don't enjoy cold weather I do enjoy the beauty of Fall. 

 I especially love how vibrant the leaves are-- almost as if God painted them Himself. 

 Beautiful hues of red, orange and yellow mixed in with the evergreens.

 Some trees you have to look twice because you can't believe how vibrant and how colorful they are!!

Above is one of my favorite trees that I see during my walk with Mia. At one point the leaves on the tree were all four colors: red, orange, yellow AND green. It was so beautiful!

With all the vibrant colors around I find it so easy to see the beauty in everything. 

Fall also makes me slow down.  On my daily walks I usually stop at the pond and sit with Mia, and soak in all the colors.  I listen to the squirrels scurrying up and down the trees and I hear the birds calling to each other. And for a moment I don't care about the time, or my to do list, or anything. I just sit and soak in the beauty.

♥ Michelle

Getting Caught in the Rain

Maybe I don't pay good attention to the weather because I did not realize it was going to rain today!  So as I was cleaning up the kitchen I looked outside and saw it pouring. I opened some of the windows and listened the rain.  I absolutely love listening the rain. It is so relaxing and soothing. And as I listening to the rain it made me think about getting caught in the rain...

Is there anything else more romantic? more liberating? Such a wonderful feeling to get caught in the rain. Having the raindrops beat on your clothes, your skin sopping wet and you are without a care in the world. For a few moments time seems to stop. You don't care about anything for that moment in time and you feel free. Almost like a kid again.

Mia and I got caught in the rain on our walk the other day. And it made me think of all those things. Except NOT. It took that one time for me to realize there are some unspoken truths to getting caught in the rain.

Getting Caught in the rain is one of the most amazing things.
Unless you have glasses on. Or are walking your dog. Or don't have any pockets.

::Don't get caught in the rain with glasses on::
You ever notice how in movies, shows, commercials etc that the people who get caught in the rain almost never have glasses on? There is a reason for that. Glasses don't come with windshield wipers.  And if you are blind, like me, the rain on your glasses makes getting caught in the rain not so fun.  Now I can't see well because my glasses have water on them and my clothes are wet so can't fully dry my glasses so I'm walking around while staring at the floor so I don't get any more rain on my glasses... Note to self: Remember to put in your contacts if rain is in the forecast.

::Don't get caught in the rain with your dog::
And how about if you are walking a dog? No matter how much you love dogs you cannot tell me you love that wet dog smell. ugh. 

When Mia and I got caught in the rain on our walk the other day we must have been a sight to see. Not very romantical or liberating. More like annoying. We look like drenched rats.  And because my dog is soaked that means when we get home I have to dry her and then I have to smell her until she completely dries off. JOY.

::Don't get caught in the rain without pockets::
Sounds funny right? Except its not. There goes your cell phone, or any piece of technology you have because you decided to wear this cute/stupid outfit that has no pockets. Proceed to put your cell phone underneath your clothes where it hopefully will not get soaked and ruined.  And then not to mention all the articles about not having your cell phone close to your chest because it will give you cancer. You'll have to brave it out for the rest of the walk, well now run because you have your cell phone in your bra, while chanting "I will not get cancer. I will not get cancer. I will not get cancer...."

There may be some more unspoken truths that I am forgetting.. maybe I'll need to get caught in the rain again to figure them out... ;)

♥ Michelle